The journey of life is full of joy
when one has a sense of belonging!
A powerful journey of self-discovery!
We all crave a sense of belonging. When we were children, it was our parents' job to cultivate that sense of belonging for us. That doesn't always happen, or it doesn't always stick with us for various reasons. As we grow into adults, that responsibility shifts onto ourselves. We must learn to cultivate our own sense of belonging.
Belonging is defined: as an affinity for a place or situation. To have a sense of internal belonging is to have an affinity for self. Your body is your home and you have an affinity for that place!
Lacking a sense of belonging, we seek external sources to justify our sense of worth. We seek accomplishment at all costs. A lot of behavior is attention and approval-seeking. We need other people to tell us we belong. This will always be fleeting!
Through internal belonging, you're able to self-validate. The only approval we ever need comes from within. That sense of belonging is something that we can learn to create for ourselves. It isn't something that we are born with. Nobody can give it to you. You CAN create it!
The Belonging Blueprint guides your creation to a sense of belonging within YOURSELF!
Lacking Belonging
- You feel stuck in your life circumstances.
- You are unable to make the changes that you desire.
- You are overwhelmed with negative self-talk.
- You lack purpose and meaning in your life.
- You experience a constant cloud of sorrow following you.
- You struggle to have genuine connection with others.
- You distract yourself from your own problems.
- You experience life in a perpetual state of lack.
- You are constantly experiencing fear, doubt, anxiety, and worry.
- You operate in a state of pleasing others, rather than yourself.
Having Belonging
- You face your problems with confidence.
- You become seamless agents of change.
- You are deeply connected to your friends and family.
- You are deeply connected to yourself & your desires.
- You have a sense of fulfillment in life.
- You experience joy and peace more often.
- You are driven in life by purpose and meaning.
- You are grounded by internal validation.
- You are filled with harmony and happiness.
- You operate from a place of authenticity.
About Ross Leppala
At a young age, I was bullied and at its worst, I was suicidal at age 12. I found sports and weightlifting, which saved my life as a young teen. That helped me move on from my suicidal thoughts. The many events and trauma as a child left me with a damaged sense of self-worth that carried far into my adult life. I just didn't know it!
At age 28, fresh into a new romantic relationship, I got slapped in the face with reality! All those years I had only been stuffing down all that pain and hurt inside of me. My life expression was riddled with insecurities and self-limiting beliefs. Up to that point, my life was something I avoided more than I embraced. Flooded with anxiety and the pain of this realization, I knew I needed to take charge. I was tired of not being able to love myself.
In 2011 I finally started caring for the most important relationship I will ever have. The relationship with myself! Up to that point, I had only avoided it. Through therapy and intentional self-care practices, I've connected with myself. I've created self-worth and belonging. I've grown to a place where I can genuinely say that I love myself.
It has been an incredible journey of self-discovery and growth. Belonging was the key to creating that big shift for me. I want to share that process with you so that you can experience life with a sense of belonging!
Course Structure
Special lessons guide you along through 4 different zones. Comfort, Fear, Growth and Belonging. Lessons are approximately 15-20 minutes in length. Each lesson comes with self-exploration exercises that will help guide your self-discovery. Connecting with what is alive inside of you ensures an individualized Belonging Blueprint! The blueprint's success in creating belonging is that individualized process. Self-discovery leads to self-worth, which leads to self-love, which creates belonging.
The Comfort Zone
- Thought Formation
- Self-Awareness
- Emotional Limits
The Fear Zone
- Fear is the Limit
- What is Personality?
- Growth vs. Fixed Mindset
- Power of Forgiveness
The Growth Zone
- Boundaries & Agreements
- Energy
- Relationships
- Radical Personal Responsibility
- Purpose
The Belonging Zone
- Four Agreements
- Personality Construction
- Goals
- Creating your Experience
- Play
- The Belonging Blueprint
Lessons are approximately 15-20 minutes in length. Each lesson comes with self-exploration exercises that will help guide your self-discovery. Connecting with what is alive inside of you ensures an individualized Belonging Blueprint! The blueprint's success in creating belonging is that individualized process. Self-discovery leads to self-worth, which leads to self-love, which creates belonging.
Challenges
Each lesson comes with a challenge specifically crafted to help push you along your self-development path.
Meditations
Self-development is powered by self-awareness. You'll learn to develop those skills with intentional meditations.
Journaling
We have to learn about ourselves on a deeper level. Journaling is a great way to explore and know ourselves.
Community
You don't have to walk this path alone! You will get support via a private discord server where only members of this program will be present. Finding support from one another is an important part of your healing and growth. We have monthly support calls to help identify any barriers to your growth. As we identify them we can strategies ways to work through them. Together, we are stronger. Together we can heal on a deeper level! We look forward to seeing you there.
Cultivate a strong sense of belonging!
This course is designed to help you cultivate a strong sense of belonging. Each module will help you construct your own unique blueprint. You'll discover and create a plan to best fit your characteristics, beliefs, and values. This ensures that your blueprint best fits what creates belonging for YOU.
Jimmy Moreno
Being guided to dig deep within yourself to try and get to the root of what's holding you back is difficult. Being part of the Belonging Blueprint has helped give me the courage to peel back the layers one at a time. I learned to put myself into a mindset that allows me to grow. Becoming aware of my actions and habits has helped me create situations that enrich my life. No longer situations where I and others do not benefit from.
Michael
This course has helped give me the tools I need to deal with life's many problems. I understand a lot more about myself and have learned to accept myself for who I am. The monthly community calls are great for getting a different perspective on how to deal with whatever we may be struggling with. This course has been invaluable for my own healing journey. Thank you, Ross.
